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I'm Talking About "STREET FOODS"

2012-03-02T20:17:00.000-08:00

How do you loved to eat "isaw" or what we called in English "Intestine"? hahah, I'm pretty sure right now you are wondering how could it be? An intestine to be eaten?

But I am really serious of asking about it. I loved to eat it...

Here's why....

I am proud to say I am a Filipino, and here in the Philippines, I would say if you're a Filipino, then you are obliged to eat pinoy foods, and specifically the Street Foods, and one of the street foods that I introducing you is the "Babecueng Isaw".

The Isaw is one of the chicken body parts, and instead of throwing this to anywhere when we cook chicken, business man and women and vendors earns money by selling it to people as ready-to-eat one.

Of course, you may think that eating intestine is yuck, hehehe, but I swear, this is very yummy...:))

Vendors on the street foods are been group, they cook isaw by roasting it to fire, then put a little seasoning, sauce or soy sauce with lemon and chili for spices, plus rice without fork and spoon, and this scenario known to be called as kamayan.

Here in Davao, the Street Foods are just near from our house, and if ever we find it craving for something new, we loved going to Barbecue Places or Street Foods, there we took usually our dinner and I just totally LOVE IT!!!

One thing more, eating foods on the street foods is just one of sign for you to be called you're a Filipino, it's by saying Street Wise and cool though it's cheap but for sure if you try, you'll loved it too...

STREET FOODS - is ready-to-eat food or drink sold in a street or other public place, such as a market or fair, by a hawker or vendor, often from a portable stall.

Something Piece for Heart's Season...Happy Valentine's Day!

2012-02-14T05:57:00.000-08:00

While I was busy of doing things, I was once remembered how life brought me into such kinda unexplainable situations, I stopped for a while and thought of the things I don't have. Then I realized that the happiest moment of all people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it. Moreover, its also true that we don't know we've been missing until it arrives.

In the gate way of my heart, I put a sign that says "NO TRESSPASSING" but love came laughing and said "I ENTER EVERYWHERE".

Love knows no reason, love knows no lies, and love defies all reason. Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, the romance and you find that you still care for that person. Love is supposed to be a wonderful feeling. It should inspire you and give joy and strength. But sometimes the things that give you joy and strength can also hurt you in the end.

When you love, you must not expect something in return; if you do, you're not loving but investing. If you love, you must prepare to accept pain. Don't go for looks, it can deceive you; don't go for wealth even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, because only a smile makes a day seems bright.

The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly on them. Otherwise, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them. Never try to impress someone to make him fall in love with you because when you do you'll have to keep that standard for the rest of your life.

A sad thing about life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, you'll find out then or in the end that it was never bound to be and you just have to let him go. Maybe GOD wants us to meet a few wrong person, we should know to be grateful for the gift. We often don't see person that we don't always get what we want, but in the end of it all, we realize that what we wanted wasn't meant for us after all. Everything happens for a reason. When you fall down because you didn't get what you wanted, just sit, fight and be happy because God's thinking of something better for you.

It hurts to love someone and not being loved in return, but what is the most painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let the person know how you feel. It's always better to have found the courage to love even if you lose it in the end and rather never finding love at all because we're afraid to face the challenge. The greatest regrets in your life and our lives are the risk we did not take. If you are thinking something will make you happy, go for it. Remember that you pass this way only once.

GOD never closes the door without opening the window. He always gives us something better when He takes something away. Heartbreaks will last as long as you want and cut deep as you allow them to go; challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but learn from them. In a relationship God knows when you're hurting or crying. There, you are given a chance to measure the importance of the relationship of the person and for yourself. When you grow, you don't become a better person, because you experience suffering. We have no right to ask when sorrow comes "Why this happened to me" unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way.

The reason God puts tears in your eyes is because He wants to put rainbow in your heart...

Happy Valentine's Day!

This blog article is not originally mine, I just get this from a multiply site...

I'm Gonna Marry Your Daughter...

2012-02-07T02:08:00.000-08:00

"THIS IS IT!"

I know how you feel, it's maybe the best thing of your life indeed. Happy and such no one can explain how the way it feels like. It's the very first time yet an endless happiness maybe. "I'll be marrying my girl..."

You never thought of these things, you didn't expected that it would come up to this point either.
I never knew, this could be your happiest moment in life.

However, there seems to be something bothering in your mind. I knew it, this is where you think that, yes, you'll be the happiest girl of all, but on the other hand, you will lost everything that was yours in the very first place.

Well, let me say it little by little...

Your Mommy, isn't it hard for you to think good, specially when things happen hard to understand, your Mom was there maybe not all the time, but by the major times, she was with you, with your dreams, and yeah, she was indeed your adviser about how to choose a good guy for you, asking her tips and encouragements of how to be better woman for your partner, of course, as all we know, Moms knows what best for their daughter and children..

Oh, but how about your Dad, you can't help it, you'll go somewhere together with your guy, in the first place, your guy asked your Dad to marry you. I know that it was really hard for your Dad to answer and say yes about it. But it was about your happiness, and as a good Dad, he always wants happiness for their children. As he sees, all of you was happier than ever after that guy proposed a wedding.

This time around, your sisters, brothers and friends, its not like before, that you could even have a time for laughter, bonding with your friends and even crazy things you used to. Now, it's all about you who will be a "Misis" and will be a loving wife to your husband, a woman in love to a guy with all the perfect as usual. And sometimes, you can't help it, all the things you used to, those things you used to, you have to leave it, but their memories will be staying at your heart. It is really true, you have to move forward and live a new life, something is ending but for real, your life starts and you start to live the reality.

However, getting married is about being prepared. Of course, I bet you are. I mean, everything were perfect. You decided to marry him, and on this, there are things that ever come, and sometimes, before you get into happy things, you'll be walking through thorns and spikes that would test your faith and decisions.

You must be the happiest woman after his proposal, you think of perfect things are happening in your life.

But this is only what can I say, we all know first and foremost how hard to decide, of choosing things as we used to be confused of things to choose, it is really hard. Each choice have their own consequences, but God gave us options and chances for us to choose the best, but sometimes, we chose to be like what we don't want for us to happen. Life sometimes leads us to things that God doesn't want us to be in, but after all, it was our choice to destined by a situation.

And WEDDING, I would not ask you of how old you are that you'll be doing this. But one thing I would rather advice to say, how are you prepared to live in this?, how are you prepared to be a wife?, how are you prepared in a marriage life of taking care of babies, be a good mother and of course to be a good our wife to your husband. Everything is changing now, you're not what you are yesterday.

And importantly, marriage is not like a "bahay-bahayan", it is maybe something like you regret you have married this guy but you can't turn back the time. That's why there organizations that conducts seminars for those who will be getting married, for us to have an ideas and more learning about this heck. Marriage is one of the most holy things ever, it's all about a promise to God.

And that's it, your preparedness really count, it's not that being older enough, or having an experiences in life you to be prepared, but it's about all of your aspects as person, as long as you were aware of things and your were mentally ready. It is also a challenge in your life, a big challenge ever, so take your time to pass through of this.

And lastly what?, don't make your worries, cares and problems as the center of your marriage life, what? it's GOD indeed, those problems are your best enemies for you to be strong and be the reasons why you can't forget of God. Made Him as the center of your relationship and marriage, it might not perfect, but it is mostly perfect, you're on fire burning with the Lord. Just don't forget to always pray and ask for an assistance. It counts!!!

Well, how are prepared? Good Luck and best wishes...:)

Real Love Conquers

2012-01-25T04:40:00.000-08:00

It's not about sacrifices at all. Sometimes, being in love with someone defines life that we even have a beautiful life after all. Love was the greatest gift, and it seem to me that everything will be perfect if everybody learns and knows how to love unconditionally.

It is such something sacrificing though it make you feel like no one can explain how does it feels like winning a a person in your heart.

Happy, that's all I would ever say. And if you're gonna ask me how happy, it's when my feet and I started to float from the air like you can't even explain how did it happen.

Yeah, why do God had given us only one heart? When there's an instance you'll fall in love to two, three or more person.

It's ironic like, God had given us two hands, for us handle everything in order, put everything in order and keep everything in order. And for us to have a left and right existence. Like my foot, they are two for us to walk perfectly, for us to walk straightly and if when there will be times we stumble, we can still stand with the help of our other one feet and of course, to have two foot for us to stand in every little thing that would ever come. We got two ears, for us to hear what's the right word to follow and the commandments that God would ever try to command us, for us to hear the right word so that we can be able to do it perfectly. We got two eyes of course for us to see things better than one, to look at the beautiful world with no lacking, to see the signs and wonders of our lives, to see the goodness of God and to using our left eye to see the negative and the right eye to see the positive one.

But there's something I wonder, why do I got only one heart but I fall in love to many.? heheh.
I would rather say that God had given me only one heart because the other heart is in my girl and my love, for us be one.

When I heard her sweet yes, I never stop dreaming that it will be the start of our endless love and endless relationship. I dreamed of such everything is perfect. Until the time that it brought me to a very beautiful life ever since, she accepted my proposal, like asking here to marry me, and it finds me like a fairytale movie.

Love can be defined as a real magic in real life. It could be like fairy-tales like unbelievable. It could be like impossible but after all, it succeed. Love is generous that I became like a cheerful giver. Love is not dangerous that people have always been believing since, it's not, it is simply like bringing your life into such perfect paradise, unexplainable and endless. True love is like branch of tree, even if you are gonna cut it, throw it into land, it will still grow. True love conquers, whatever life had gave you errors, you learn to be patient and wait for the right time. Yes, as they say it takes two to tango, after all, you became one, that whatever her responsibilities are, it could be yours also.

#Love

The Unconditional Love

2012-01-18T04:05:00.001-08:00

This is one of the hardest thing that we have to do.

The fact that we know the whole truth of being just a human, I would have to say it is difficult for us people to love anyone without any condition. After all the compromises the she did, it finds me very unlawful and disgusting. It is my point of view where I know, its is really a hard thing to do to love such a perfect reason.

How could it be? If all that we know were only human, in the very first place we have our own brain, its for good though sometimes it leads us to such things that results to sin. God completed us, physically and emotionally, and He gave us brain to think, but not because God made it, it doesn't mean we follow Him all the time, no we don't.

For over how many years have past and until now, as far as we knew God is love and He teaches how to love people as what He loved us, that even people, some of them are showing something like that, we follow sometimes we don't.

Love, it was actually the greatest thing in the world, but rather than loving someone out there, we people just love them at first sight. heheh

Love, well, we know how to love them, but if ever they do things unpleasant to us, we can't forget it, we started to hate them.

Love, it is love when we know there is peace in our hearts. But sometimes, love can be defined by being just blind to what is right as long as you followed your heart and nothing was impossible for us.

I totally loved people as my brethren, this is my heart was saying inside of me, but to be honest I don't know how be realistic to love and give real love to everyone. Because this is my mind was saying, but you know, it was just hard for me to understand this, my heart says love, but my mind says they doesn't even know you, how can you love them... Outch, that was the evil...:(

But honestly friends, God really taught me how to give love not just on Christmas but everyday... I can't explain how much life gave me beauty, peace, order, love and joyful days in my life ever. Every time, I appreciate life so as how much I appreciate the creatures of God, and one them were people around who just reminds me everything about love.

The Real Love for me is like about being a cheerful giver, the happiness inside when day by day everything I saw makes me inspired to live, to be like a perfect despite of all the imperfections, and in that point, it was unconditional, as long as I am happy, I see to it that loving someone is not by choosing whom to love to...

Love.Love.Love unconditionally because God do. :)

If Love is Blind, I'll Find My Way With You...

2012-01-13T18:52:00.000-08:00

If love is blind

I'll find my way with you
Cause I can't see myself
Not in love with you
If love is blind
I'll find my way with you...

LOVE. It can be the greatest feeling, the greatest gift of all. Love simply describes how wonderful life is.

But sometimes, love can be the most unwanted part of our lives, that even normal human being became so foolish and stupid in a way they forget their own identities and characteristics just to get the person they loved.

It's hard to believe that even each feelings are being ruined and destroyed.

I would always say that if love was the reason why their lives are being broke, then why do God had given us this feeling, then why would the song says "love is the greatest gift of all" ? how do you think about it? and how about you, what can you say? Is it really because of love, I became foolish? is it really because of love I became crazy and stupid at all? oh common'!!

Here:

I am Elly, right until now, single all the way, but behind of being single, I couldn't help myself of seeing people and just realize a lot of things and learn from them. I'd listen their own words of wisdom about the heck, they said being involved in a relationship is very nice that at least you have that someone to be told "I love you!"! Ahm, I am pretty sure I'd loved to. heheh

But you know, things are getting grown up, matured and accurate. It is like a big hole that if you can't be careful to walk side by side, for sure you will be fallen. Then that's my own comparison of love. Yet, love is just a feeling that you can totally manage at all, it is your own feeling, and I don't think you would believe that it is uncontrollable, no it's not!

Have you ever wonder that it is a gift from above? then that's it, it was not yours in the first place and became yours after, it means it was given to you then you took over to it, take good care and handle, probably. But of course, don't you believe it that it can be definitely manipulated by you and not the other parts of your body. Indeed!!

Love doesn't kinda like blind ooh, have said that? It could be said for a reason you've lost yourself because of your love to him/her. LOVE IS NOT BLIND, it sees, and precisely knows how to choose what is right. But it could be LOVE CAN MAKE YOU BLIND, it could be!! Love has no life if there will be no person to handle it.

Love is by your heart but it is manipulated by our minds. It works when our minds are working with it. Love doesn't command but your mind instead. Love is immature but because of our minds, it can be perfect as God, it would not lead you to wrong decisions but our minds instead.

God is totally love, yet He think that if He will be crucified, all of us will be saved.

Then how about it: I love you but I can't love anymore because of the bad things you did to me. I love my papa, but I hate what he's doing.

Maybe love is everything, and it explains everything. Yet, love, for many people, it has different meaning, many descriptions.

Love can the greatest gift of all but it can be the most dangerous feelings sometimes that's when you're lost.. :)

We Are Unique! as far as I Know

2012-01-11T19:48:00.000-08:00

In the first place of having less faith is by believing that you can do a lot of things only because of your own hands without the help of other people or Jesus Himself. -A fact that sad to say it became our nature by living in our daily life cycle...

Having our own state of mind makes us believed in what in what we saw around us, and in behalf of showing "flat" communication through observation, conclusions have been already made.

One of the evidences to prove that we are unique ones is by believing our own capabilities and or what we are capable of just to stand and make a stand with our dearest conclusions

Your thoughts result into a very complicated idea, it can be the most wanted that most people looked forward to, To defense is to stand and to fight is your right. Being judged and justified reasoned you out that your are to put limits with your own perceptions, and that is what your mind set's all about.

Being a part if human nature is to believe that they can do it, no matter what. Perfectionists even we are really imperfect, but that's the fact that we have to consider, and unless you listen to anybody, you can't predict and expect that people will listen to you too.

We live by nature but we can hide to anyone. Yet a simple glance by people makes you realized that they are smiling with no reasons, just because they are well-known with who you are today.

It's not you who have that unique ideas, that smarty brain and that resourceful mind. Figure it out, it's Jesus. and because I believed that I am Son of Him, I AM Unique!. :)

The party begins with a Doxology and followed by the National Anthem!

2012-01-07T04:34:00.000-08:00

The party begins with a Doxology and followed by the National Anthem!

You know what? I usually laughed after the Doxology, it's just that how I really wonder the people and audiences clap their hands. But of course, I'd rather understand them, they saw people on the stage dancing with Praise to the Lord, yet it serves as our prayer before the party starts. Wow! Imagine the audiences will clap, they really thought that it was an intermission number presentation. ahahah (No offense!)

Oh,this article is all about parties and foods and gimiks and stress and amusements.

Our Company's Christmas Party finally done. But it was late though it last the happiness.
But before all of these joyful moments at the party, I'd rather share you my experiences before we hit the mark after all.

It's December, all the people wanted and looked forward to is the Noche Buena, but I'm the subject here, I don't want to talk about people. Just me. heheh

Yeah, I was saying it's the season of giving. And December I think more parties and foods. So exciting, but in my part, it's just so disappointing that I can't be with my family this Christmas, Im busy of my work, I'm busy considering I am working in a 24 hours open establishment-a Convenience Store indeed! As I've heard, this company only closes once a year. Imagine that?? heheh

And again, it's December, I know Christmas Parties are common, I know every Companies are preparing too much for Christmas Parties, coz it's once in a year. And of course, the Company that I am presently working, as if they will not celebrate Christmas. I never assumed of something like party2x!!. They are actually busy preparing for their stocks that of course probably will count on them and it's business as usual. But individually, I'm preparing for one reason. Nothing personal here.

By January, our Company will be having their annual Christmas Party, and on that time, we will be closed. But before January came, me and my other co-employees from other branches just joined our Company's Program that all their branches must have their own presentation, and considered as a contest. Well, indeed we joined in on their dance contest. And starting from the first week until the last day of December before the party started, we really had a hard time for our practices. I spend money for commutes and other expenses and of course for the costumes. It really counts.

I never think that we can be winners in the future. But I trusted to our choreographer, he really is a good dancer and a good teacher.

And on the party, I saw people, a lot of people, they were my co-employees from other branches, but 80 percent of them were our enemies for the dance contest. As if they really are prepared, props, costumes and the choice of music. But of course, we are not losers, we can do it!!

Wow! it was not only the contest and the people, but of course the guest host, he is Captain Jake, one if the Radio DJs of MOR Davao and and and foods and drinks and deserts and ice creams and gimiks....super fun...And actually to be honest, we won from the dance contest.!! weee

It was a nice bonding with my co-employees. We went to "Station 91" for something..heheh

And after that, tomorrow morning, go back to my work. hahahah

The Year 2011; What was that all about?

2011-12-25T22:30:00.000-08:00

Just never thought that 2011 is ending, and after this year, again let's start the new year!!! Well, I just wanted to share something and you know, I can't help thinking how my life get in to different challenges, trials and problems, and of course, the joyful moments and happiness I did and experienced.

My life on 2011? It's kinda mixed of motions, it was like a puzzle.

Last time, that was summer (I think so), I found true loved, I found Him with such unexpected date, I knew of Him, and I started to follow Him. It's Jess Christ. Yes it's true, 2011 for me is such a very significant year of all, that in this year, I knew how to give love not just on Christmas season but every day. I knew of handling things, problems and different kinds situations that probably came over my life and to my family. However, starting from the time I knew of God, He really taught me a lot and a lot of things. And He also made me matured enough to get things out all over. I already know how to speak, laugh, cry and love people and many people. I started to get out of my comfort zone, to be honest in all the way, to trust and give trust to anyone. And most specially, I was being open minded that all the things happening around me is just a matter of having a positive attitude every time and FAITH.

It was a year of learnings and maturities. In fact, I met people whom I'd give courages and inspirations (honestly), and it's my own fulfillment that anyone can be their own self through my words of wisdom and encouragements to them.

A year of fulfillments, indeed!! (it's a very long story to be told....) But let me just give you one of my untold stories. I've already reached my desire which is to be my Mom in bed every night, and maybe, that's all I wanted ever since so far. And yet I came this far because of her and of course to my family.

Many many things. though it was little, but kinda dream come true, but of course, years are changing and growing and people also, I wouldn't deny the fact that people don't contented by things. so if there's a new year, there's a new goals and objections.

And now, 2012 is coming, 2011 is ending that fast. And I never how the year 2012 give us the significant, well, they said it's the year of the end of the world. Let's wait!!!

And again, if there's a new year, people would always have their own new year's resolutions, and if you ever ask me what are mine, never mind, people are changing not by their attitudes but their own personalities and wants, and those wants, it changes every day as we wake up and see things...

So, for us, good luck!!!

The Implications of Typhoon Sendong

2011-12-19T18:41:00.000-08:00

Pasko na ba? Bigla ko namang naitanong yan sa sarili ko, sa kabila ng lahat ng nangyayari.

One of the reasons why I'd say it's Christmas, it's the people, they seemed to be happy anywhere anytime, joyful Christmas Parties, joyful Christmas lights, lanterns, reunions, giving gifts and any other joyful things they do. And of course, the essence of Christmas, the climate changes into a very cold and fresh air, and that's no doubt, it's Christmas indeed!!

How do i find it?
It's something few days to go, before December 25th, but until now, I still find it so disappointing, so sad and it seem to me it's still not Christmas season. Why? Behind of those happenings around us, the tragedies and the lives who just lost because of the Typhoon in CDO and Iligan City and any other Cities and places over the Island of the Philippines. That Typhoon resulted a lot damages, houses were being wrecked, trashed and being broken. Many people's life were being caught dead and and the most hardest part that I ever felt bad, it's children's life, and it seems like 'as many as the typhoon can', and sometimes, it never stops me of thinking why is this happening, I thought it's Christmas and I know, it is really hard for us to celebrate and just be joyful, that suddenly it remind me that I don't deserved to be happy because there are still people who can't celebrate the Christmas.

On the news, on the Televisions and other news publications, all I can see is the tragedy due to Typhoon Sendong. You know over 600 people were dead, and can you imagine how the Typhoon did that in just 2 days? Well, it's just very devastating and very sad to know about this.

There is no fireworks in Davao City, it was banned. So, I have two (2) main reasons why my Christmas is not that very joyful. It's lonely in a way there are no fireworks that probably would give us the essence of Christmas, which provides us noise as our way of worshiping God yet the peace is covering around us though. And the second is about what had happened in Cagayan de Oro City(CDO) and Iligan City, because until now, the number of dead people really counting and counting.

You know what's my point of view why I'm publicizing this post?
Yes, it happened, that Typhoon really took away hundreds of lives. It's suddenly devastating and just maddening to think about it because it's Christmas but it can't be that Christmas. What do you think why it happened? I wonder how do think about it to survive, but actually, all of these, happened for a reason, it's not about the perfect life we always look forward to but it's about challenges and tests with how we remember God everyday in our life, of how we appreciate God. Sometimes, God only listened to people who are really sincere and true to Him, and of course we can't lie to Jesus. Life is really beautiful, that's when you know how to appreciate life and thank God in every little thing you have just received today. So the tragedy, thank God because it challenges you, it makes you think things on how to be a survivor of God, and it makes you become a strong person behind of those affections made by the Typhoon. Maybe you can probably say |yeah, I can only say this words and think that it's easy for me to say these because I'm not the one who is experiencing that bad things right now, or I am not literally affected" it's true, but for now, this will serve as our guidance and inovations for us to move on in life, to move forward. Let's not forget that we have our own goals in life that God has give. It happened for a reason, it happened because God has His purpose. Learn from it and go on... You still have the chance, the life and the reason to live. Life must go on.

Celebrate Christmas, be happy today and forever because that is what God taught us. Give love not just on Christmas but give love everyday...

Simbang Gabi!

2011-12-16T02:08:00.000-08:00

Wow, it's really Christmas. I can't wait! And again, December 16 will be the first day/night of the Filipino people will go to church every dawn or every night (the Simbang Gabi).

Of course, every dawn, we'll wake up at exactly 4:00am, it finds me such a very cold and tired, but Filipinos are really being their own tradition, in which this Simbang Gabi will be a 9 consecutive days, and on the 24th of December, we finally made the 9 days of church.
Traditional, it's just that many Filipinos have their own beliefs that after you've made it or when they have completed those 9 days/nights to church. Their wishes will be granted.

But that finds me a childish feelings. It may be an individuals trade, but of course, we are gonna be sensitive enough or be aware that we do it for Christ and not for our own wants.

It's a healthy hobby of waking up early in the morning , and those people who lives in just near to the church, it's an advantage for you guys. You can walk and it benefits you for your exercise every morning. I'm pretty sure you know about it!!

But, just one question, do you guys understands what you're doing? I mean do you really what you're doing in going to church every dawn or every night? You have to know about it, it can have a negative result or it pleases God, maybe.

But what's the most important is your heart. If one night you absent and thought that your wishes cannot be granted, hello, are you really particular with that? God doesn't showed us the conditions, He loves everyone unconditionally, that 9 days will be useless if you still not change with your negative attitude. God changes us, and not that because you went to church in 9 consecutive nights changes the whole you.

Filipinos really are traditional specially Catholic people (NO OFFENSE).

Just a friendly advice: God doesn't want your hard sacrifices, it's about you who have worshiped Him always, with what do you do, speak and if you loved others same as you have loved Him. Religion cannot be totally brought us to Heaven indeed, and so whatever you do just to please Him, make it really sure that He sees it, count on it and He'll be pleased. And without your heart all the way, what do you think?

Enjoy your Christmas! and whatever you do this season, do it to please HIM, and make it forever!!

When You're On A Date, Do You Really Count On Flowers and Gifts?

2011-12-13T06:06:00.000-08:00

Probably, majority of you guys will say "yes, it counts!"

I must agree, as a guy, we'll truly make sure our gals will get tickle..hehe, yet, it's just a matter of being presentable to our date, and having a beautiful lady in front of me in a solemn and silent environment with candles and flowers on path to our table. Wow, that sounds really exciting and romantic, though it'll be about 100$, but it's ok, let's talk about being romantic, there are many ways.

Very important for me if I'm gonna have a date, I will let my parents know about it. They must know where we will be going and what time will I end up our date, although there will be no assurance of when we will end, but I try to promise to them that we will be in our home by this hour.

I understand those people out there who didn't yet introduce their dates to their parents, probably this will be your first time on a date. But I still let know them I have a date.

And to be general, It's all about your safety as well, specially for girls.

But boys, here I will give tips for you! Its my own opinion...Its up to you if you follow all these.

I must consider the practicality, yet still have that factor of being romantic.

It is how you think who much would it cost. The dating place is one of the important to consider in dating. Choose where you are comfortable with. And of course, I'm pretty sure you already know what your girl's liked the most. You've been in some places for sure, so it's your common sense. But think of those place where she didn't see yet but something like very nice and good environment, and of course, don't forget that it will be not too far from your houses that will cause you stresses and haggard for having a bad trip. Bring her to a place like heaven, yet money non-sense. :) Be practical! INDEED!!!

You're Presence and Physical Appearance!

Nowadays, people must be so vain and fastidious to their physical appearance, of course, in the first place, it really counts. But one thing is very important about it is that, being simple enough can please anyone out there, specially, being yourself will the most important of all. But this is in a way simple yet you know your date would surely appreciate it. What I do in terms of this matter, I always ask my mom, well, just seek and ask for an advice a little. your mom knows what girls like from the boys.

Your presence is the most important. Whatever you will be wearing will vary on your attitude. When you try to wear that, you must be comfortable enough. and be yourself, always. It's not about the jeans and the ray-bans, it's about you!

Presence of mind!

It can applied at any field. But here, it is also one of the most important. First of all, set your goals. Its all about how will you handle your objectives from dating her tonight. How to get her sweet "yes", no, not that, I mean I don't do that. It's a date, It's just a momentum where you and your girl talk anything. Mind you, dating is a part of socialization, its not about to be attached to somebody, it's knowing someone, yet it might also be about getting to know your crush, it's a date. But if ever that's not what you mean, maybe it's not a date, you're courting already, and it's another story.

Do not be shy. Ask her whatever(depending on her permit), so she could also ask you whatever. Be open-minded to whatever or where will be your topic goes on. Be yourself!

It's just a one way street. Whatever happens on your date, consider it as your experience in dating. It will be your additional point and stepping stone to another ladder and narrow you'll be traveling towards.

Christmas is Here, Bringing Good Cheer!!!

2011-12-07T04:56:00.000-08:00

Christmas is finally here bringing good cheer to everyone!

This is actually the most important occasion we that are celebrating. It's all about Jesus Christ's Day, which we all know, we must be the most happiest people in every way we learn to love others which Jesus' command.

Thanks for this time, that even in just once in a year, I will remember the time I've learned how to love children, family, myself, others and God. And in that, the love is always staying in my mind, of how to be in love and give love.

The Christmas always reminds me of how happy the life I had. God gave me good and real friends, family, brothers and sisters, and on the other hand, Jesus always give me rooms for mistakes for me to learn from it and grow. Jesus taught me the word "challenge" which I always considered it as my starting point of my long run in life.

On Christmas, we always unite. And during Christmas, it's the time I will see all of my family members, my parents and brothers. We eat together, we laugh together and we talk together that even nights can't stop us when to end it up!

In this season, my happiness is immeasurable, the love that people shows me is unconditional as well us God do. And one thing that really finds me so significant is when God have told me Christmas is not only once in a year, Christmas is love, and so love can bring you to immeasurable joy that if you would give it to everyone, it's the happiness inside that you can't explain, so since Christmas is love, it is the feelings that you always handle EVERYDAY!!

Even if it is literally Christmas Day, but the celebration from my heart celebrates endlessly Christmas.

And today, my Christmas is really cool!!! And I always thank God for this few days to come :)

Living The Way We Want Others To Be pt II

2011-12-02T18:38:00.000-08:00

I met her as a boss of my mother. She's gorgeous enough for me to say I like her the way she is.I thought of she was a strict one, and in the midst of our conversation, she's not, actually!

Since then, i started to like her and the family members, to them i don't feel like I am nothing nor other people. They considered me as their relative and more than that, a son indeed.

During our first meeting, it was about to begin my negative impression between her husband, although her husband is a relative of us, I can't help it thinking that he is a hypocrite. Yet my conclusions overflows under my negative impressions from them, yes they're very good and kind in a way they really are true people.

I often visit my mom to their house for me to know she's doing fine under those people I mentioned. (Their boss)

She's doing good, but the thing that only make my mom feel tired about is their daughter, a child that I would say and even people say, spoiled brat, maldita and ang hirap intindihin, gusto nya na lahat ng gusto nya masusunod, at kung hindi mo yun masusunod, iiyak at iiyak yun and if you try to rebuke her from doing that and these, you'll be crazy because she will not following at all.

But the only thing I ever thanked God about is the good health of my mom and of course, their boss for being so good to my mom and my family and me. And of course, they sustain all the needs and other expenses, as if they don't care about how will they produce money in it.

The ones I appreciated is the wife, she's being good to me, even though i tried myself of believing that it is hypocrisy, but she's not pretending to be someone like I wanted to be. She offered me things like I don't have any reasons to refuse to.

I was really happy to meet their family members and her, I couldn't imagine how will I say anything aside from thanking. But she didn't make me me feel I don't belong, others and anyone.

But this time, I will keep their kindness and most specially, to God who brought me here, I can't forget this. And never felt this way before that even to my true relatives, they can't do it for me.