Preserving Her Virginity

People nowadays are more issued with the things that make them so curious and make them learn other lessons.

And we can’t deny it; most of us are aware, sensitive, more than what our grandparents do. The thing is just about “the reality, the world and the generation”, we might say awkward, pervert and even words criticizing at all, but in the end, we fall in to the reality of life in which we even think it’s nature but indeed our own choices.

In the early days of our parents and grandparents, they always remind us how important, sacred and precious our purity or our virginity in common could be. They used to tell us even tales and folks just to rest assured the real importance of it, then we realized so many issues, and probably, we are intrigue how it is supposed to be, supposing. They were always considered right when it comes to traditions and beliefs, they are followed and being influenced with almost every one of us, of course to the neophytes or we might say, today’s generation.

First things first, the beauty of life definitely refers to our natural personality, our purity and how we handle our vigilances and consciousness before we make decisions, specially those things that really made us so curious and if liked, we choose to be in with it, regardless of anything.

One of the biggest issues in today’s generation is “sex”, I mean the ‘pre-marital sex’, yes, it is really known, that even teenager ages 10-18 is aware or probably experienced it. It’s just so sad when we see them unaware what was the lost and what was the importance with what was lost. It was their sacredness, their purity and their virginity, well, they don’t even think about that, coz as far as they know, all have been experiencing that, and of they would not try it, they feel left behind with the latest things on earth, and it is indeed the reality.

Based on a research, 8 out of 10 is NOT pure and virgin anymore for girls, and for the boys, basically it’s 9 out of 10 who ever experienced sex. Basically, that is the ratio. J

Well, (For the girls, specially) how do you preserve it? Is it still important to you though? What kind of security do you do in order to avoid the unexpected activity?

Just a friendly tip: (From my girl friend actually)

1. If do you have a partner, both of you should have a serious agreement about abstaining sexual activity. If you loved each other, you will both know your own limitations and from what point will you stop doing such unnecessary, if your boyfriend really loved you, he will understand how important it is to you and it is very appreciated, but if he doesn’t and try forcing you, then don’t be fool, that man only after your purity and lust of his own. Think about that, first of all.

2. Since, you have an agreement. Don’t make any motives that let him try to attempt. You may avoid going to places that is so dark, and to the places that you are only the people who’s there that no one sees you at all.

3. Always put in mind that sex should be done after marriage to preserved virginity. And know that in the end, you will experience how fulfilling it is, and as a man, how we wanted was all about these, that we are so lucky of having a girl like you.

Think of your Mother, your Lola, they used to tell you sacred things and how fulfilling it is when everything on you is pure. Realized that when you are attempting to try it, it would never be pure again, it would never be clean again and you are not virgin already, no matter how hard you try to fix things in normal, it is broke and disgusting.

Don’t worry if you haven’t yet experienced it, your friends knew about it, but they can’t be like you again no matter how hard they try, they can never be pure like you.. and you, you can always be like them any time, but not now.. J