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Point of view. Creating ideas! Marrying a woman or a man is another broad entity of your life. It's another difficult and untold story. You'll be constructing new directions and establish a very long lasting relationship that will take you to the road of either loneliness and happiness. That whether you like it or don't, it will be very hard for you to go back and quit. You'll rather choose to live with it with regrets and bitterness. Remember that the love that you feel for your partner in the present time before marriage, will not be the same with the love that you'll feel after you marry. Everything changes, people do, feelings do. If you think he/she has already told and showed you everything about him/her, well think again for many times until you get 27 years old from 20. Being in a relationship to someone doesn't measure the love with how long or short you've been together. It's the way how look forward, it's...

"I am proud of being poor!" - we always hear this statement, implying that one is not ashamed of being poor. This statement contains a strong message that may determine the value of being a proud individual who experiences poverty and the lack of material things that are supposedly available and visible inside a house - it delivers the message to never be ashamed of who you are and what you only have, instead be proud because you are alive and enjoying the gift of life. Powerful! But, let me give my views on this. If we are to reconsider our previous life, back when the time that everything seemed to be perfect for our wants and needs, back when the days we were thinking about those things that we had were enough for our physiological needs, we were contented.  Furthermore, as time goes, as our age is numbered, the level of our needs and wants increase. We may still be earning the same amount of sources and income but we will look for something that is new, s...

I am a Christian, basically we are (all) Christians as we are sons of God. But what's the difference between me and you? I'll start with the other one... Him, as a Christian, is someone who has Godly friends - boring people, boring activities like discussing about God, life, reading the Bible, sharing one another's story. Him, as a Christian is now someone who is not a party goer, never a drunkard of alcoholoc drinks, never chases men and women, always so serious about the job he does, never knows how to laugh out with funny jokes around him. He never plays with love stories, he is a worshipper of God, he comes to Church every Sunday or once a week, he joins to a life group, he has boring friends as well, he seldom sings songs from popular artists in the world, he defines GOODNESS as the essence of True Love, he shares God with other, he shares his life before and after he knew of Jesus, he has great stories about Jesus. He is a boring person... a boring person to be wi...

What's the difference between the two pictures in this collage?  The pictures might don't have a big difference as it shows only me smiling together with my friends and this is going to be my own version of "before and after" photo challenge... The truth is,  the first picture ( below) is showing my face who was actually drunk with beer and was so pathetic begging my friends to just go home and sleep. On the other picture (above), a face who seemingly a very happy person after God has shown His love and revealed His presence on me - it's an unexplainable feeling that nothing can compare. That when I finally finished college.  Allow me to share to you my personal testimony about how did God pulled me back to His hands in an unpredicted situation . Remembering back many years ago, it was, if I'm not mistaken,  2010, when I knew about who Jesus is to me. I even posted it to somewhere in one of my social media accounts about that experience. ...

Trabahanteng Estudyante. In English, Working Student. I'd like to share my story, this may be a bit long, but the purpose for this is to inspire others... Quote: "Financial crisis is NOT really the reason why an 'out-of-School-youth' exists, but it is a personal choice NOT to go to School. Financial crisis is NOT an excuse why an individual cannot go to college, because our ability to think properly is the one that we have in order for us to sustain our decisions, specially when we are thinking about how to start and how to end our chosen destination. Going to college is not an easy thing when you know from the very beginning that no one can support you even your family, but you have a choice to really go or just let this issue stops you. Life is a matter of choice, life is what we make it, we create our own destination." - Elly *** Lumaki at namulat ako sa katotohanang kami ay mahirap. Pero noong panahon, masaya ang buhay, kontento sa kun...

One step ahead, and I am done with this. First semester has gone, finally!! Don't even think that I'm bragging myself now just to write this and let everyone of you know. I believe, through publicity, a lot of people may be educated and be inspired about how a complex life becomes simple and attainable. It's been three years, almost four years, and I am done with "work-school-life" balance. It's been so hard, so hard that you guys cannot imagine. But this time, I will be sharing what really motivates me to never stop doing this stressful situation which you might think I should've just be working now, start earning money, help and support my family. But hey, I think there is something that I really need to do, something that is an extra mile, I can do that, yes, but am I getting a great reward for doing that? Probably, yes, but there's no more greater things than what I am expecting from doing such. The thing is, my life can just be like a pla...

Maybe you're thinking about how will be this post can give you an assurance of proper closure of your agony, your feelings and most of all, your bitterness. Moving on is never an easy thing that goes around instantly, it is not like the other way around, but it's absolutely a serious process for you to be serious about. Maybe you are thinking what remedy can you give for your own self, to help you step out and leave the scars, perhaps for a short period of time. Before you start reading the plot of this post, try to change your mood from being anxious, problematic, traumatized (perhaps), or even like, change your mood into cool yet empty from pessimism. Open your mind and heart, I would say, that the more you become cool, the more will life can offer you pieces of success when it comes to gaining of alternatives and better options for life after tragedies, breakups, devastations and so on. According to my own understanding, our feelings have two divisions, the feelings of ...

Hi, this is an open letter to everyone I knew and to all who greeted me:     As we grow old, we realized of some things we did in our life were good, bad, negative and some were just nice, yet we consider those things funny and we even wonder time moves in a very indefinite way; we expect things to happen but only a small percentage of it can happen, we wanted to do a lot of things, but only few of those can be done and sometimes, we pray for a thing, but was not granted and given. This is a kind of life where a lot of 'questions' cannot be answered, a lot of answers but we never realized it was the answer of those questions we asked. As we live, we are not alone, and believe me, we can't be all alone. We can't live without socializing to other people. God has made people ever since the world begun, because we need them and they need us too, but in what way? A LOT, and you only have to think many times for you to be able to recognize those. One way we d...

Hard working people are those who are working with enthusiasm and full of expectations by themselves too finish their jobs in a day, in exchange of rewards or a compensation. Most of the time, we never get the difference between "working hard" and "working wise". Never that we know, being under the yoke of serving our Bosses beyond the limits can affect our psychological stats. Being wise in the job that we do or let's say, in a company, it's about implementing the desire to collaborate with your co-employees, most specially, with your Boss. Remember that the most important thing to do when it comes to sustaining our good relationship with them, is our time and that we can able to communicate with them so that we can build their trust unto us. As an employee, I have realized that being in a world consciousness and doubtfulness, I was able to handle my integrity for 5 years now, but I never did something for them to give me a negative exchange, inste...

Luma, simple at tipikal na kasabihan madalas kong marinig sa mga matatanda na magbubukid nakakausap ko sa kanayunan pero kung susuriin mo ng malalim relatibo sa kasalukuyang pag-uugali ng mga tao magbubukid,mangingisda,kabataan, kababaihan,mayaman man o mahirap at anumang sekswalidad ang kinapapalooban lapat para sa lahat ito. Noong bata pa ako, sabi ng Mama at Papa ko, napakasaya daw nila nung nakita nila ako, sabi, lahat daw ay ginawa nila upang ma-sustain lahat ng pangangailangan ko sa buong pamilya namin. Hindi ko man labis na ma-imagine kung gaano silang naghirap o nahirapan upang ma-meet nila yung kanilang gustong mangyarari sa amin sa pagdating ng panahon, subalit nung akoy nagkaroon ng sariling isip ay sadyang sa-realized ko na ganun na nga lamang ang kanilang pagmamahal sa akin mula nung ako naisilang at lumaking nagkaroon ng isip at paninindigan... Ang sabi nila sa akin, sa aking naaalala, kung ano daw yung gusto kong gawin, kung anumn yung pangarap ko a...

I do believe that my work has it’s own result in the end, it maybe in good or in a negative way,  I may fail at some point, some time, but I know I could ever recover, and I’ll get over it. I may even have critics and some may pull me down just for them to shine with for their own benefits. I am Eleazar, I have known to be called “Elly”. Actually, that was not really my nickname, my Lola and my parents don’t call me that back in my childhood times. I supposed to be just a kind of person who would just follow my dreams as my parents told me, particularly my ambition to be a great teacher someday, an educator that some may learn from my own ideas, my beliefs and my life, though. I supposed to be like a kind of person who knows to be a follower somehow, a person that as far as my parents know, I can do my very best just achieve my goal in life. So overwhelming, when life ha s brought me different kind of things, a lot of experiences and a lot of opportunities. I cam...

One simple thing that is hard to fulfill, hard to have and to be with our mindsets. The Time; its is gold, as gold as we can ever dreamed to, something that helps us adjust everything we're in to. Our excuse to forget things and forgive people who have done mistakes and trespasses. Our reason to love and to be loved, every single moment. Basically, it's one of the most important thing on earth for us and to everyone of us, it's practically because from it, we learn to reflect, to realized and to learn anything from what we are seeing. And practically because of "time", we can do things slowly but surely, and perfectly. But this time around, I would like to share something.. Our life is an assignment, which we are not obliged to answer but we are asked to follow instructions. Our life is a test where our Teacher is the best Teacher of all, that if we have to failed to answer or do His tasks, He will still give us the answer after all. Among God's...

One day i fall to someone na hindi ko inakala na magiging kami ng girl, GIRLFRIEND siya dati ng kaibigan ko na lalake then after they broke up i tried na ligawan ang girl, and nag paalam namn ako sa kaibigan ko na liligawan ko siya at pumayag naman ang kaibigan ko although wala na sila. kahit ganun nagpaalam parin ako kasi nirerespeto ko  kasi pagkakaibigan namin. at hanggang sa naging kami talaga ng GIRL, then 1st monthsary namin is her BIRTHDAY nov. 13 andun kami sa dagat ininvite niya kasi ako at yung kaibigan ko na boyfriend niya dati and isa pang kaibigan ko, marami kami kasi andun din yung mga kaibigan niya ang "13 marias" as usual party. Hanggang sa nag tagal pinakilala na niya ako sa kanyang ama kasi gusto ko rin na makilala pamilya niya ayoko ko kasing tago na relasyon kasi ang pangit ng ganun at nakilala ko yung papa niya nag usap kami tapos lasing pa at that time yung ama niya na nakipag usap sa akin natakot pa ako :) hindi ko alam nagtago pala yung Ex ko sa ...