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Madali Maging Tao, Pero Mahirap Magpakatao

Luma, simple at tipikal na kasabihan madalas kong marinig sa mga matatanda na magbubukid nakakausap ko sa kanayunan pero kung susuriin mo ng malalim relatibo sa kasalukuyang pag-uugali ng mga tao magbubukid,mangingisda,kabataan, kababaihan,mayaman man o mahirap at anumang sekswalidad ang kinapapalooban lapat para sa lahat ito. Noong bata pa ako, sabi ng Mama at Papa ko, napakasaya daw nila nung nakita nila ako, sabi, lahat daw ay ginawa nila upang ma-sustain lahat ng pangangailangan ko sa buong pamilya namin. Hindi ko man labis na ma-imagine kung gaano silang naghirap o nahirapan upang ma-meet nila yung kanilang gustong mangyarari sa amin sa pagdating ng panahon, subalit nung akoy nagkaroon ng sariling isip ay sadyang sa-realized ko na ganun na nga lamang ang kanilang pagmamahal sa akin mula nung ako naisilang at lumaking nagkaroon ng isip at paninindigan... Ang sabi nila sa akin, sa aking naaalala, kung ano daw yung gusto kong gawin, kung anumn yung pangarap ko a

Dealing with a Liar

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We could somehow understand every situations they are currently experiencing about why they tell a lie. In the first place, they have the choice what to decide, to tell the truth or not. In my own opinion, lies sometimes make sense, it could help you and anyone in some other way. But to be honest, it won't give us the total freedom that we could ever have. There are different kind of lies, some lies happened commonly because they are protecting their own self. Some are by protecting their friends from a mistaken choice they have done, and some are just because they want to, just they can't tell the truth. And believe me, Most liars don't believe on Pinocchio, that if the tell a lie, they will not know how to stop their  nose from stretching, people are people who could tell everything they want. Lies are our second option when we don't know how to deal a situation. I got things to share about how to handle or just deal with the most liar around us...

Scrap; LIFE

I do believe that my work has it’s own result in the end, it maybe in good or in a negative way,  I may fail at some point, some time, but I know I could ever recover, and I’ll get over it. I may even have critics and some may pull me down just for them to shine with for their own benefits. I am Eleazar, I have known to be called “Elly”. Actually, that was not really my nickname, my Lola and my parents don’t call me that back in my childhood times. I supposed to be just a kind of person who would just follow my dreams as my parents told me, particularly my ambition to be a great teacher someday, an educator that some may learn from my own ideas, my beliefs and my life, though. I supposed to be like a kind of person who knows to be a follower somehow, a person that as far as my parents know, I can do my very best just achieve my goal in life. So overwhelming, when life ha s brought me different kind of things, a lot of experiences and a lot of opportunities. I came he

Bawat Araw ay May Kahulugan

Sa buhay, hindi natin malalaman ang bawat mangyayari pa lamang sa susunod na mga oras at panahon. Hindi natin maatinag kung ano din ba ang dahilan kung bakit ito nangyayari at bakit nararanasan natin ito. Sa bawat panahon na dumadaan sa ating buhay, may mga bagay na minsan na rin na-take for granted, akala natin ay wala lamang itong significant sa atin, akala natin ay itoy maliit lang na pwde mo pang gawin sa susunod na pagkakataon. Katulad na lamang ng pagkakaroon magandang oportunidad, kung saan ito'y ibinigay na sa atin pero hindi natin napansin dahil sa rason o sa tingin mong may hinihintay ka o di naman kaya may may iba kang gusto. Tama nga naman po, iisang beses lang talaga dadaan ang mga bagay-bagay, ang mga experiences, ang mga pangyayari at higit sa lahat ang mga opportunities, maaaring hindi mo man ito magustuhan, at dahil dun, maaring nasayang ang pagkakataong iyon. Ikanga nila, lahat nga ay may dahilan, pero hindi naman po ibig sabihin na tayo ay mag hihintay na lan

Leaving a Place is a Memory

It's hard for us to leave the place where you became worthy, where everything became matured and where everything became you. The people around, they are those who even tried to make you cry sometimes, but the thing is, they also made us strong in a way we realized that everyday is not really like laughter, in other words, we became strong enough because of those weaknesses, of those failures and mistakes. Those people who made us cry, made us realized something at the same time. At first, we are confused, bothered on how to start, by adjusting yourself in, upon entering a new place and in meeting new people. Right at the point we had it all, we became constant in greeting one them, we became close inside that place, that we are calm, that yes, they already recognize us, that they acknowledge us whenever we cross our way, and in a long run, we haven't notice that the time is running so so fast, it became hard for us to leave when the time comes. Yes I would admit, I almost

Preserving Her Virginity

People nowadays are more issued with the things that make them so curious and make them learn other lessons. And we can’t deny it; most of us are aware, sensitive, more than what our grandparents do. The thing is just about “the reality, the world and the generation”, we might say awkward, pervert and even words criticizing at all, but in the end, we fall in to the reality of life in which we even think it’s nature but indeed our own choices. In the early days of our parents and grandparents, they always remind us how important, sacred and precious our purity or our virginity in common could be. They used to tell us even tales and folks just to rest assured the real importance of it, then we realized so many issues, and probably, we are intrigue how it is supposed to be, supposing. They were always considered right when it comes to traditions and beliefs, they are followed and being influenced with almost every one of us, of course to the neophytes or we might say, today’s

Not Getting Any Younger

For the past 20 years, it's still very fresh and funny to recall all of my experiences.  Maybe the most unforgettable experience was my childhood. Yes, no matter how old am I today, when it comes to remembering my childhood, it seem to me a very happy life and so blessed with my relatives, when I know that all that was a very natural, you know, playing games and different kinds of stuffs that would make us feel happy at the end of the day, and just by living natural this thing made me realized that every day of my life was accountable, and by enjoying it, I can say that I was contented with what we have everyday, that by those simple things that we see around, we make fun of it.. Simple things, it was just like a little playground, that through these, I make the most out of it. I make fun, I make friends and I make myself happy. Simple things are those natural things that when you see them, you think it doesn't make sense, but when you try to thing about whats with tha

At Your Service, Yes!

When I started working in such stores and supermarkets, I really had a hard time enjoying it that way, you know , from the point of assisting the customers, and be like a servant to them at all time and though I understand it was my job, but it’s kind so hard for me . Especially from the point that you are busy of doing something , like refilling of stocks from the shelves and etc , the moment when a customer tried to look at you and think he/she would gonna have something to ask, I always practice like I don’t patronize them at all. You know what are my reasons? - Many. Well, some of my reasons to avoid being closed to the customers are, when they  will be asking for something I do not know, especially those products not available but they will insist for it. Secondly, I am not really that particular about having a good communication with the customers , all that is on my mind is the idea of “Customers are always right” that even if how hard will you try to do your be

Ang taong nakikilala natin ay may hatid sa atin.

Mga kaibigan, mga taong nakilala natin at pamilya, sila yung mga typical na nakakasama natin sa bawat pagbuo ng ng araw. Masasabi nating kumpleto at higit anupaman, eh naging masaya ang naging takbo ng araw. Sa bawat taong nakikilala natin, lahat nang ito'y may sinasabing kahulugan at rason, commonly, most people say na maaaring kailangan nila tayo, or kailangan natin sila sa ating buhay;    Kailangan nila tayo, sa puntong maaaring tayo ang magpupuno,tutulong, at kaibigan upang magkaroon ng kwenta at magandang kahulugan ang buhay nila, kailangan nila tayo sa puntong 'baka' tayo ang magiging dahilan sa kanilang pag-unlad, at magpapasaya sa anumang lungkot na siansapit nila sa ngayon.    Kailangan natin sila, sa puntong may mga bagay na hindi natin nakukuha mula lamang sa ating sariling kakayahan. Sa sarili natin, at iba pang pangangailangan emotionally speaking. Maaaring kailangan natin sila upang nang sa ganun, magiging masaya tayo sa bawat araw natin. Pero sa aking

The "Time" of Our Lives

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One simple thing that is hard to fulfill, hard to have and to be with our mindsets. The Time; its is gold, as gold as we can ever dreamed to, something that helps us adjust everything we're in to. Our excuse to forget things and forgive people who have done mistakes and trespasses. Our reason to love and to be loved, every single moment. Basically, it's one of the most important thing on earth for us and to everyone of us, it's practically because from it, we learn to reflect, to realized and to learn anything from what we are seeing. And practically because of "time", we can do things slowly but surely, and perfectly. But this time around, I would like to share something.. Our life is an assignment, which we are not obliged to answer but we are asked to follow instructions. Our life is a test where our Teacher is the best Teacher of all, that if we have to failed to answer or do His tasks, He will still give us the answer after all. Among God's

A RELATIONSHIP STORY. (A shared love story from one of my friend -Richard Paul)

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One day i fall to someone na hindi ko inakala na magiging kami ng girl, GIRLFRIEND siya dati ng kaibigan ko na lalake then after they broke up i tried na ligawan ang girl, and nag paalam namn ako sa kaibigan ko na liligawan ko siya at pumayag naman ang kaibigan ko although wala na sila. kahit ganun nagpaalam parin ako kasi nirerespeto ko  kasi pagkakaibigan namin. at hanggang sa naging kami talaga ng GIRL, then 1st monthsary namin is her BIRTHDAY nov. 13 andun kami sa dagat ininvite niya kasi ako at yung kaibigan ko na boyfriend niya dati and isa pang kaibigan ko, marami kami kasi andun din yung mga kaibigan niya ang "13 marias" as usual party. Hanggang sa nag tagal pinakilala na niya ako sa kanyang ama kasi gusto ko rin na makilala pamilya niya ayoko ko kasing tago na relasyon kasi ang pangit ng ganun at nakilala ko yung papa niya nag usap kami tapos lasing pa at that time yung ama niya na nakipag usap sa akin natakot pa ako :) hindi ko alam nagtago pala yung Ex ko sa